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Waiting for him


03 Aug, 2011 08:56 AM

This is the story of my sad sad life.

In 3rd grade I met the guy of my dreams. His name was Tristan. We were at the same school for 3 years but then went different ways for middle school. Just before Christmas in 7th grade we got back in touch. We talked and emailed and finally I realized that I was in love with him. I grabbed the chance and told him in a long letter. He was shocked. Partially because no one had ever done something like that for him and partly because he had no idea how strong my feelings for him were.
He became my boyfriend and we dated for 2 1/2 months. Then one day I got an email saying he needed some time to think all this out. I was crushed.
About a month later he called me saying he was ready for us to move forward again. I was ecstatic.
We dated again for 2 1/2 months. Then one day he said his mom was putting a lot of stress on him to forget about me and move on with his life. He hated to do it but he broke up with me again.
I never stopped thinking about him and I wrote him letters and poems and all sorts of stuff.
Finally one day he told me that he couldn't do this anymore. He couldn't keep lying to his mom and to me.
He let go of me.
I didn't let go of him.
About a week ago he emailed me saying he had gotten my emails.

I don't know whether to be his friend or what. I'm only 13 and everyone says I'm too young for love. Is there an age limit on love?????
Please comment! I need help. I started cutting myself after he broke up with me and I haven't been able to stop.
My email is Please help me!!

Tags: Help, Hurt, Breakup, Cut
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heirzhenne says:
12 Sep, 2011 12:33 AM

.hey. .its true that there is no age limit when it comes to love.,but still your too young to have such pain and sufferings to him. .i believe you can still find your true love when the right time comes in the right place:) for now just be happy that you experience how to loved and be loved:)<3

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linda says:
12 Sep, 2011 06:12 AM

Ignore him...If he cares more about what others say then just leave him..JUST FORGET HIM!

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Amy says:
12 Sep, 2011 06:10 PM

omg! i sorta just turn 13 2 months ago and im sorta going through the same D: it hurts very much :( course we havent broken up yet but... we love each other but we dont know what would happen.

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Tina Adams says:
12 Sep, 2011 09:29 PM

Trust me sweety things get better, it may be hard in the beginnin, first loves are the hardest to forget, but instead of hurting yourself thinking about the past, trying making the best of the situation, find joys from those special moments, because one day along ways down youll think back and smile at once you had. Lifes a roller coaster has its ups and downs. But ou just gotta hang in there. One day you'll find someone, whose willing to put it all on the line, and will love you for you, no matter what others say. SO for now be strong, love the moments you once had and enjoy your life ahead of you. Remember things happen for a reason, he came in your life for a reason, its just up to you to figure out why.Hang in there, no more cutting because your only hurting yourself. So smile because one day youll make a very lucky man happy, he'll wake up next to you and will think to himself "dammnn I'm the luckiest guy in the world" Just wait and see :)

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mr prince says:
14 Sep, 2011 08:56 AM

my parents also do this with me.... :'(

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brenda says:
14 Sep, 2011 09:47 PM

hey . i kno how yu feel if yu have any other issues or need someone to tlk tu email me @ :)

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libo says:
15 Sep, 2011 02:09 AM

well first of all why oh why oh why u have cut urself.? that is not good for ur health...hang in there. do dont just thing that will hurt u. one thing i dont understand is why does he waited fr that long and broke up with u. its like he do it again and again but same distance of time..but girl u are still young life ur lifes while u are still young n well...dont just waste ur time with that one guy. there are alot more out thea for u.

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hihihihi. says:
20 Sep, 2011 08:09 AM

You're never to young for love. But, honestly. He needs to stop playing with your feelings because he is unsure of his own, just hold in there. And if you think being his friend is going to hurt you, don't do it. Do what's best for you.

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Jason says:
21 Sep, 2011 08:28 PM

It's ok, you don't need to worry if he really loves you and you him, then love will hold out until the end of time if need be. If you need help look to those around you: friends family, and belive it or not, the strangers on the bus(Your Age that doesn't go tot the same school.)Good luck and keep in mind that you always have a place in this world,... period.

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Lucy says:
23 Sep, 2011 08:48 PM

i experienced something similar last year and no you are not too young to love someone. And if you don't get him back a third time, then he wasn't worth your time to begin with. Things will improve eventually; whether it takes weeks, months, or years.

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Nathan says:
24 Sep, 2011 09:20 AM

Hey girl, It will be alright. You can stop the cutting and wait a few years til your are a little older. When you are older you can get back together and his mom's opinion does not really matter anymore!

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pauleth says:
26 Sep, 2011 06:39 AM

age is never a limit but the time a guy likes you is you kan never stick with one guy forever when the time comes youll fall in love again just remeber that destiny will never let you fall for the wrong guy......

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mikayla says:
26 Sep, 2011 06:44 AM

dont worry about him and ur not to young for love if he left u it just wasnt meant to be u can find someone better trust me

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kadash_18 says:
26 Sep, 2011 11:12 AM

hi there for me its ok to be full inlove with someone what ever is your age we are just humans we are born to love and to be love back...all i can say is if you love take it slow dont give your one hundred percent coz if you loose him theres nothing remain for you to recover.leave something for your self.its like 50 to if you lost him you still have streagth to stand up...ok

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Natz says:
26 Sep, 2011 01:51 PM

No, there isn't an age limit on love! I hate it when people think that. Me and my boyfriend met at 15 and fell madly in love - we just couldnt live without eachother. We've both been almost-suicidally depressed and we're the only people that keep us going. Our parents dont really understand, they like the relationship and have no problems but think we're too young to really feel love. We're now 16, been together for over a year, and more in love than ever. We would die for each other if we had to. We're everything to each other. But sometimes people don't understand how special true love can be, and how it can come at any age.

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rumi says:
28 Sep, 2011 02:10 PM

hey just carry on with ur life don't be sad.... if u love some1 and they didn't have a single word of love for u just say to them "hey!why am i wasting time with u just go where evr u want".................

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k8 says:
28 Sep, 2011 05:35 PM

I went through the same thing. What you must do is hold your head high and forget what people may say. For get the past and move on. There are better fish in the sea. I would know, i have one.

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tori says:
29 Sep, 2011 06:45 PM

oka so heres the thing you are never to young or old for love ever no matter what anyone tells you and cutting is never the answer to anything it not only hurts you but lost of people around you. the way i have always looked at relationships is that if its meant to be it will be no one can keep you from your true love you should just keep your head up cause if he doesnt want to be with you after everything you do for him and tell him then hes really not worth your time every person in the world needs someone that will treat them right even you.... take care keep your head up and dont cut better days will come

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pearl says:
30 Sep, 2011 01:35 AM

we the same to you girl.. for me i go to fight to him i love..age doesn't is a very important not a age limit.

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Apple says:
04 Oct, 2011 02:06 AM

Forget him...
He doesn't deserve someone like you. You can still find a guy better than him and could love you more than you ever thought.

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Angela says:
06 Oct, 2011 10:44 PM

...rona... your feeling for him is normal like others had experienced.of that.even me. ur so young for that kind of relationship...all you want to do is focus on study.. and trust god....ask his guidance...

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mai says:
08 Oct, 2011 01:03 AM

listen honey i know u r having a hard time but i really hope that things got better by now just stay strong and i hope that u stopped cutting yourself but take my advice dont u EVER hurt ur self for a guy that never deserved u and never did many things to us but try to find some one who will respect u and love u from the bottom of his heart if u need anyhelp just email me on a girl and i understand ur feelings

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Kristieeee says:
08 Oct, 2011 08:13 PM

Hey,Your older than me..Im like what 11? Dont cut yourself!Theres no reason to..I have a SIMILAR problem to that..I had a boyfriend who i loved so much and he loved me..But he changed when school started.There was no more i love you goodbyes..There were rumors about us..So i broke up with him..I didnt want to..But i was forced..Now,Someone told him i love him...Im hoping he'll love me back and ask me out again...And i had a friend name Tristan i liked..LOL And that was in 3rd grade but haha..But still,This Tristian guy your inlove with..Dont give up k? #NeverSayNever Becuz theres always that one guy who is crazy about you,So smile(:

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Soumi says:
13 Oct, 2011 10:31 AM

i experienced something like u since 3 yrs ago but can't overcum it still nw i miss him lot &love him lot. and also miss all those gud memories...but i believe dat time will heel my pain..however i dont wait for him anymore..although i love him..still now. practically..dear u have to think and be happy for your family who care for u lot.

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Vic says:
14 Oct, 2011 08:07 AM

love is a real feeling, regardless of whatever age, I felt it at thirteen, and I still feel it at thirty-one

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Anonymous says:
15 Oct, 2011 02:34 PM

Heyy girl. Don't cut yourself it doesnt solve anything, but pain caused on your family. I know this because i been there once, dont worry over this guy if the love is real between you too it will come back and he will come back and never leave you, i hope this advice is good, stay strong sweetie!!!(:

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Mikayla says:
19 Oct, 2011 09:46 PM

I kinda went through the same thing you did. I'm 13 also and I secretly dated a guy for 9 months. It was the first day of school in 7th grade (this year) and he pulled me aside and told me he is going to move on. I thought of suicide at first. Then I realized cutting was easier, so I did that. My best friend told me to stop cutting myself for a week and see how I feel. I stopped cutting myself for a week and when she asked me how I felt, I could honestly tell her that I felt much better. I was still hurt, but I felt better for stopping my insane pain breaker. I am still hurt and lonely and long for his hand and daily hugs, but I know now that torturing myself for his loss is not going to make me feel too good. At least he didnt cheat. I am still best friends with him. DONT HURT YOURSELF!!! It will NEVER solve your problems....EVER! Have fun with your singleness and enjoy what you have and the blessings you recieve. :)

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bianca says:
26 Oct, 2011 06:25 PM

the same thing happend to me about a month ago and i thought that i would be lost without him but i got through i cut myself too really bad and now i am currently dating my new bf he is amzing i still think about my old one but i try not to it will be ok

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Kairi says:
09 Nov, 2011 04:42 PM

It is not early to love at the age of 13 (: I myself started dating with my current boyfriend at that age, now we have been together for 2 years and a half and I love him very much but if I may give you an advise, don't hang on to only one person keep your eyes open because someone better may come and if he does come, give him a chance! (:

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Tatianna says:
28 Nov, 2011 08:35 AM

Hang in there. I know it's hard to stop once you've started but you have to learn to handle this situation another way. There is and never will be an age limit for love. Anyone who tells you different is dead wrong. Love is an amazing thing and you'll find your true love one day.

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Tatianna says:
28 Nov, 2011 08:35 AM

Hang in there. I know it's hard to stop once you've started but you have to learn to handle this situation another way. There is and never will be an age limit for love. Anyone who tells you different is dead wrong. Love is an amazing thing and you'll find your true love one day.

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CeCe says:
30 Nov, 2011 09:22 PM

Aw it's ok i'm going through the same exact pain you are going through right now. It's horibl being scared to go to school and see him and every rumor i hear about him makes me get a stomache ache but don't worry just think of happy thoughts don't hurt yourself becuz of him evetually you will find someone else that will make you feel so good and you will just forget about him but i know how you feel this is coming from and 11 year old we are never to young for love and every day i come home after school crying and listening to sad song that make me cry that i think will make me feel better it herts knowing i'll never meet him anywhere again or maybe not even text him ever again but knowing that me and you are only 11 and 13 we stil have a full life to live so there will be many more guys and they will come and go but we just have to learn to move on and just keep on going on with are life but don't worry you will be okay if you but trust i know how hard it is to get over a really hard break up if you ever want someone to talk to feel free to email me at i'm always on that thing! GOOD LUCK with him! Feel better soon!

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nur naz says:
27 Feb, 2012 05:36 PM

u know he never loved u so,u shouldnt cry over someone who doesnt even thought about u what u will just find someone who will respect ur love

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Toni says:
26 Jul, 2012 10:46 PM

Girl please stop doing that to yourself. Right now i honestly think your to young once you grow up more your'll be more mature and prepared

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sharlize says:
20 Apr, 2017 08:13 PM

im 12 i have a boyfriend too we broke up so much times i started to cut too im trying to stop its hard i readed your story i feel how you feel.i hope you get this plz read more plz i will love to read them.

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