True Sad Love Stroy
Unanimous24 Sep, 2010 07:04 PM
Before I begin my story. I assure you it is 100% true. I write this story to share my experience in life and with love. I learned that if you do something behind your family's back you just end up hurting yourself..
When we first met I was 15, he was 17. It all started online. I know you might be thinking...tragic love story...online?
I randomly started chatting with him because I was extremely bored and he himself was also very bored. For about a week we would chat for hours and hours. I found myself laughing in front of the computer screen at the stories he told me. The heart that seemed like it never lived seemed to suddenly start beating. I liked him. Living in a house with older brothers and sisters who were busy with their husbands, wives and jobs I always felt alone, like I wanted to talk to someone. My parents were constantly caught up in family feuds and I was always left behind. In my room, with nothing?my friends were around but I couldn't tell them EVERYTHING, I mean I was new to the school and didn't instantly fit it. Anyways I talked to this guy for a week, one weekend I found myself busy and unable to come online. I missed him; I really wanted to talk to him. I didn't know what was going on with me. I mean....I met him ONLINE...he might not even be a guy or he might be some random pervert who hits on girls. But I felt that he was something I always wanted. Weird? Yes?very.
After the weekend ended I went online and received many offline messages. He told me he wanted to talk to me, that he missed me and gave me his number. I gathered the courage to grab my phone and dial the numbers I saw in front of me.
Hearing his voice, it was perfect, not too squeaky not to deep, it had a softness to it that felt like I was being hugged or sung to sleep. He was perfect.
We talked for hours and hours every single night. Laughing at every single story one another said. Things were going great. One day we met up. In the crowd of the people I saw, I don't know how but I spotted him instantly. He had a buff body, a beautiful face a perfect beard and bronze complexion. He. Was. Perfect.
I couldn't believe my eyes. Someone so perfect. Online?
I mean that doesn't really happen....
It was like I knew him for ever. We played in the snow like children and time flew by so quickly that I felt I stayed with him 10 minutes, not a whole day.
The following week I was to travel abroad for 4 days and I was so depressed at the whole idea. Of leaving him?I wanted more of him, he wanted more of me. But I had to go...
For 4 days I wasn't able to have any contact with him what so ever and I missed him dearly.
After what felt like the longest 4 days of my life I finally came back. From the airport I directly went to see him. Being in a family who strictly believed in love after marriage (arranged marriages) what I was doing was life threatening. But I still did, I would lie to my parents to see him, every morning in my spring holidays he would pick me up and we would go to the beach or the ice cream parlor or any place. Just as long as I was with him. At night he would stay on the phone with me until I fell asleep and he would also fall asleep on the sound of me breathing...on school nights when it got too late we would hang up a bit earlier but start texting for the next hour. When we had final exams he would stay on the phone with me hearing me study, flipping through pages, taking notes and talking to myself. It was love, I knew it, and he knew it. I felt that no couple on earth could be as perfect and as in love as we were. Things got very serious and we went to the hotel...once...twice...three times...the most beautiful hours of my life. Me and him.
Until that one day..
That one day that ruined it all...
We hadn't seen each other in weeks because of school and other issues that kept on coming up.
He constantly texted, begging to see me, if only for 5 minutes. I was trying so hard to convince my parents to let me go out but they didn't seem to want to cooperate with me on that day. Giving up, I collapsed onto my bed and fell asleep...
Oh how I regret that small nap I took...
I woke up remembering that my love was waiting for me to let him know if I could see him or not and I jumped out of bed looking everywhere for my phone. I couldn't find it....
It was with them....They found it...they read everything....they knew everything.
My brothers came into my room and slammed the door behind them. Their eyes red and furious. They kept on asking me questions...who is he? When did you meet him? How far have you gone? But I didn't want to say anything...I didn't want them to hurt him...
They threatened to whip me if I didn't speak up, but I didn't care. I told them nothing.
One of my brothers left the room and went downstairs while the others continued interrogating me...
When he showed up he was holding a whip. A thin brown whip.
He whipped me so much that I felt that the tears I was crying were tears of blood...but I didn't speak up...I told them...Nothing.
My mother came into the room begging my brother to stop. Thankfully...he did...
Seeing that there was no point in asking me questions they left my room and locked it from the outside with a key.
I couldn't believe what happened...My head kept on spinning...I was crying tears that burnt my skin...I felt my heart aching. But no regret... no...
Not for a single moment did I ever regret loving him.
I just regretted that I wasn't more careful
The whole household seemed shocked...shocked that their little girl could do something like that...my mother couldn't believe anything.
She kept on telling me. How could you? Betray your own family? We trusted you...
How could I? Why did I?
Because I loved him... He made me happy ... he was mine ... he was my perfect prince...
I was not allowed to leave my room fore my own safety. Though angry at me, mother knew if my brothers saw me they would whip me to death. Staying away...in my room was the better option... My brothers told my mother that I was to stay at home. If I was to go anywhere it would be school, and school only, until it was time for me to get married to some random guy they would set me up with. I was living like a prisoner in my own house.
I didn't care what they wanted to do to me or what other intentions they had... I wanted to see him...I had to see him
I needed him... so badly....
For about a week I stayed in my room
Crying myself to sleep every night I felt like I was going crazy. I was smelling him ...seeing him ...hearing his voice...
I refused to eat anything and all I did was either scream or cry...
My brothers got annoyed at my screaming and threatened to whip me more if they heard another sound from my room.
Until one day I jut couldn't
I count take it anymore
I put on a hoodie; baggy pants, snuck out from my window and ran away.
It was 5AM and I had no were to go...I didnt want to call him because I knew if my brothers were going to look for me they?d first check if I went to him
I found a random bench and just sat there...extremely frightened at every stranger that passed by...I was 16 ... but I felt like I was 4 again...trembling like a child who had just lost her mother?
I had no money...no water. I was dying for a droplet of anything...looking on the ground for any change...I found nothing.
Then my monthly visitor came...I was bleeding... I needed to wash up I needed to change. I was in pain. I felt disgusting and I knew I couldnt call anyone.
With my own two legs I went back to the prison I was in.
I slowly crept back into my room, trying not to attract any attention and making no noise. As I turned around to close my window?I saw him?In the black land cruiser?He was there? Oh how I wanted to jump back out and run into his arms. Just as I opened the window again to step back out he signaled to me to stay and blew me a kiss and quickly drove of. Why? Why did her go?No?come back?My tears were streaming down my face as I saw his car drive off. But I don?t blame him?my brother had just left the house and would have noticed him.
For the rest of the day I stayed in my room, crumbled under my blanket...crying... I was holding a watch he had given me ... feeling the leather... smelling it... it smelt like him...Aaaahh I was going crazy. When night came... my brother came into the room...he told me I was to go to school the next day and promised to rearrange my face if I did anything sneaky after or before school.
I was so excited...and I couldn't care less about my brothers threats I could call him from the school phone! I could hear that voice that I missed so much...
And so I did...The minute he said hello...my eyes filled with tears...my heart sunk...We couldn't talk much but he just wanted to make sure I was okay and promised to drop something off at school before the end of the day. Before my last class the school admin gave me bag...he had dropped it off just like he promised?He gave me a phone...
I kept it hidden in my bra at home and at night I talked to him...told him how much I missed him. He told me that he was going crazy...my phone was switched off and he was worried that maybe I got mad at him?but he knew that wasn't me, I wouldn't just disappear.. I couldn't?
Things were getting better...so much better...Being locked up in a room with nothing to do but talk to him was more then enough.
To my luck my brothers and my parents had to go to France because my uncle was very sick. My room was unlocked but they got a housemaid to watch every move I made and make sure I don't go anywhere...gosh...she must of been played a lot..She was like a hawk...
But I wanted to go out
I wanted to see him
I missed him so much. Hearing his voice wasn't enough.
One night he called me at like 10pm and told me to look out the window. There he was. But not in his car. At my door!!
Yes. I snuck him into my room and for 3 beautiful nights... he stayed with me...Every kiss was like my last...I knew we couldn't be together...something just kept on annoyingly reminding me...
The third and last night was the very last time I ever saw him...
My family came back with news that I didn't want to hear...
We were going to move...not to another neighborhood. Not to another city....to another CONTINENT...across the world...we were going to move forever.
I was to be married to my brother's friend when I graduated from high school. And that wasn't a choice...or an offer...that was an order. They told me he was best suited for me and not the "trash" I fell in love with.
..I cried for days...weeks...months...
I called him...I told him what happened... he couldn't believe me...he blew up...and he did something I never expected him to do...he called my brother...
He told them, he loved me, he wanted me , he couldn't live without me and that he would do anything to have me. He explained to him how the thought of me being someone else's killed him and that no one on earth would make me as happy as he would. He wanted marriage.He wanted to live and die by my side
Strangely my brother didn't shout, didn't swear
He told him he was ready to compromise
He beat him but, so badly that he was taken to the emergency room in the hospital...
His brother called, told me to back off. That I'd hurt him enough
That because of me he didn't sleep nights...he wasn't eating properly and he wasn't bonding or seeing any of his friends or family members...and now he was on his death bed? His brother begged me to realise that our love was impossible and it did nothing but hurt both of us...
About a month later we traveled.
Here I am... at the end of the world...missing him...
Wishing to be able to hear his voice, to see his perfect smile, feel his perfect body..but I don't want him to get hurt anymore...
And I must not forget..
I am a bride to be.
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CommentsPost a Comment
01 Oct, 2010 06:36 AM
my story is very similar to this one its sad but this is life. you gotta let go someone you love.its better for both.
01 Oct, 2010 11:20 AM
i wish u both should be made a single soul
01 Oct, 2010 07:01 PM
Tell someone what your bro did to you and then once your old enough, leave your husband and move back to see your love. Im so so so sorry 4 you and this tragic story of love
02 Oct, 2010 12:27 PM
im sooooooooooooo sorry i wish you could be with him i am sooooooooo crying my eyes out now oops tears keeps fallen on my keypad
03 Oct, 2010 04:09 AM
they cant centrole you forever you make your own choices you should have the right to see who ever you want they cant tell you shit
04 Oct, 2010 09:42 PM
Are you by any chance muslim? because i can only think of muslim women who are still constricted like that.well hope your situation gets better or better yet... elope :))
08 Oct, 2010 05:03 PM
OMGEEEE! that is the SADDEST story ever! :'( i wanted to CRY!!
im sooo sorry! i cant believe your brothers did that!
i hope that you two will meet again in the future!
08 Oct, 2010 08:56 PM
this story made me cry it was worth all that reading, man i wish you could live happily with him :(
20 Oct, 2010 10:37 PM
I feel so sorry for you. You've been very brave. To me, what you did was right although to reality, it was very very very wrong. I think that all you have to do is wait a little. When you're old enough, leave your family. I believe it is only two years that you have to wait. When your eighteenth birthday rolls around, leave your family. Go back to find him. I know there's a lot of possibilities, many things that might have happened but I am going to leave you the hope. I'm not going to bother listing the many things that might have happened because I'm sure you can figure that out on your own. Also, reading the story, I don't think he would be able to do any of those things. I wish you luck with all my heart. I trust that you and him will be reunited someday, I believe that it will be someday soon.
25 Oct, 2010 10:12 PM
ouch.. my god.. i cant believe it.. so heartbreaking.. i cant help myself but to cry..
09 Apr, 2011 11:03 PM
Soulmates cannot be kept apart. You are bond to each other. Stand strong and love will lead you in the right direction. Listen to your heart and if your heart is really his it will take you back into his arms. Don't put up with family like that, yet don't be reckless. Don't do anything to make then whip or beat you again. Good luck! and remember, love always finds a way!
21 Apr, 2011 04:53 PM
listen to your heart...love is really important and if your family really did love you then they would had let you be...in your shoe i would had elope...but i guess that wasn't an option for you...on your 18th birthday leave what isn't important and go to him!!! because apparently he really does love you to take up the punishment... i wish you luck...
11 Jun, 2011 08:14 AM
Am sad 4 u ... Ofcours i cna't feel the pain that you suffer but am sure its alot .. But keep faith inside and am sure that thier will be someday you will get back 2 your lover am sure :'(
17 Jun, 2011 11:35 PM
Girl! Im Crying Tears! Im Sorry But Your Brothers Misunderstood your Love! They Never Felt True Love Like You Did... I'm Also Sorry About What Happened To U, Im Kinda (Really) Young So I Haven't Experience Anything Like This So.. Im Going To Give You, I Girl I Bearly, Know Advise. When You Close Your Eyes, Do U Dream Of Him? When You Feel Something To Your Lips, Is It Him? Well, If The Answer Is Yes Then Notify Your Being Abused! You Will Get Help!And Maybe One Day You Will Find That True Love Again... & If Your Brothers Come & Find You, U Can Say, "You Never Felt The Way I Do, You Can Beat Me For Thousand Of Days, And Try To Kill Me For A Million Of Months. But I Love Him, And If You Kill Him, Beat Him, Or Touch Him! I Will Die & Haunt You For Your Last Days Of Life... & I Hope God Will Send You To H***. The Only Thing I Ask Of U Guys Is To Let Me Be Happy." Girl You Are My Hero Of Surviving The Heart-Breaking Romance. But Here Comes The Bad Advise... Maybe Online Love Isn't Your Family's Thing... & To Them Its Not Good. Since Your Their "Little" Sister, They Want You To Be Happier Then Be With Some Stranger. But Girl, Promise Me This, Trust Your Family's Love & Wishes & God Will Lead You The Way(:
28 Jun, 2011 03:27 AM
HI its sad to read to your story well now option is yours if u ruin ur life thinking all the time that he could have been here or u go out n look for him find him and marry him...by the way it would be biggest mistake of your life to marry someone else it would ruin his life too coz u wont be loving him as he deserves as he would be your husband so dont cry fight out the situation....
30 Jun, 2011 03:59 PM
so yu got married? it must of been hard...
04 Jul, 2011 09:13 AM
run away when u turn 18
even ur family cant stop u then
16 Jul, 2011 03:24 AM
oh my god is this even allowed?? i guess it is but this is just too sad and tragic to even seem true :'( im so sorry for you..
24 Jul, 2011 11:06 AM
OMG how old r u right now i fell really really upset ur broz will regret for that its ur choice for who u wanna marry a sorry if i made u more upset i hope u see the boy u luved in the future or even 2day or 2morow
26 Jul, 2011 02:05 AM
gosh...i cant believe that up to this day arrange marriage is still existing...well..i believe, love conquers all.,someday your family can forgive you for what you've done..go..follow your heart..
04 Aug, 2011 11:49 PM
Aww, it's true love he love you so much.
05 Aug, 2011 02:08 PM
Omg you should call the cops and tell them about the nude they were doing to you then leave your brothers friend and move back to him leave all the sad memories soon if you do this you will reach happiness.
06 Aug, 2011 06:10 AM
That is so sad. Truly, sad.
If only your family will understand that you will not always be a small girl. That someday you will have a life of your own. That someday you can have a life that is yours and uncontrolled by them. Whatever is your current status is... I wish for your happiness to come.
17 Aug, 2011 11:30 PM
am so sorryyy for u......i can support u ly by my tears.....hope for the best something good will knock ur door..until then stay cool
04 Sep, 2011 07:00 PM
Is there anyway I can contact you ? I have some questions I would like to get answers to. And p.s Fuck you rajesh.
13 Sep, 2011 11:07 PM
WOW .. i am really .. WOW..
no words .. just WOW ..
what happened next?
:'( im so sorry to hear this, i just can say: OMG
14 Sep, 2011 05:08 AM
run, and run as fast as you can. I want you to run away and be with him, you will regret it if you dont be with him forever.... please just run xx
19 Sep, 2011 04:36 AM
first let me just say sorry about that..wow ur brother did that to u..? dont they like get arrested for doing that to u.? where is your father at this time.? he truly love u. a man whom have the cuts face ur borther is a true man.i am sooo sorry for what u are going through but i pray and hope that u two will get back together. nobody can tell u want to do with love..gurl u are soo brave. i wish u two the very best.
20 Sep, 2011 01:58 PM
if u need to talk im here at firstname.lastname@example.org
29 Sep, 2011 03:28 AM
that is so unfair right there my friend is true love it's hard to find a quy lik that :( i pray u2 will be 2gather
08 Oct, 2011 08:49 PM
Not being mean..But i wud seriously kill your brothers...I mean thats just fucked up...If the person i loved wasnt able to see me anymore..I will kill or cut myself...I would cut his name on my arm..This is sad..Like what Shayla said,Your very very brave..If i were to go through something like this..I wud have had it and my life wud be over..The worst feeling in the world..Is being with out him,Isnt it? I KIND OF know how you feel about this..I love this boy so much,Tht id kill myself...Hes my world.But the day he broke us apart..That whole month and a half..Nothing but crying and crying..Enough to give out to mostly all the homeless... This boy i loved was named Justin..My parents would never let me date until i was 40...Crazy right? But im younger than 15 And have already told my parents about Justin..But the day he broke my heart? Thats a totally different story..But you know..I dont know how to make you feel better..Becuz I wud say #NeverSayNever ..But your married now arent you? Youve been forced..But maybe,Just maybe if your ever free frm all that..You shud come back to the boy you love...Love him like no one has ever been loved before<333
16 Oct, 2011 01:02 PM
it is a sad story! i met someone in chat too and my family found out! they took my phone away and i could not go to the computer! i couldn't talk to him for three months. my sister use to hit me, swear, and lough at me and my love. she thought its all a game. and now all i had to do is gain my family's trust which i did. but now what i only can do is to chat to him only once a week. no more calls. i cant hear his voice again. :( i can understand you! we kindly have the same pro. but mine hasn't ended yet. hope you the best!
26 Oct, 2011 04:53 AM
after u merried......... kill your brother ^^
31 Oct, 2011 01:48 AM
I know exactly how you feel... being away from the one you love sucks right? But as for my situation, I think its for the best- right now im silently grieving but thnking of him happy wth his new girl made me think that all my sacrifices are worth it because if theres one thing i want and wish for him, it will be his happiness.....
04 Nov, 2011 12:01 PM
I am soo sorry you had to go through this but family is family ... you just dont have choice and you cant even see the person you love get hurt and if you had the choice to stop the hurt you would never leave it ... it is never our choice
08 Nov, 2011 01:47 AM
Are you joking? You must not love him enough if you can be oppresses that easily . Like honestly you are stronger then you can ever believe but crying in that situation helped no one , not you , not your bc , not your situation . Alot of girls worked hard for females to be heard and equal and that they too have a voice in this world and it makes me angry that you can't stop up for your self whenthere are millions of ppp that will stand up for you but you have to take the first step . You are not alone.
23 Nov, 2011 11:52 AM
So the guy you love got whipped by your brother? he's really brave then!
05 Dec, 2011 07:23 AM
your very lucky :) you found a guy who can love you dearly.
10 Dec, 2011 08:00 PM
oh my god:''''(
12 Dec, 2011 12:04 AM
goshhh...your story is very touching...
your love to each other is one of a kind...
16 Jan, 2012 04:44 PM
Is he dead? D: Tell me he isnt! D:
11 May, 2012 07:31 AM
Oh my god,,, is this really true ??its so sad :(
20 May, 2012 01:46 AM
i can't belive that your own family would be like that, my parents are very strict but they would eventually give in, cn't they see that u guys love each other? i feel so bad, true love should be together, i would probaly runaway if i loved him that much and never go back, my advice is never forget him and try to keep in contact with him and mabe someday u guys might be able to be with each other so just keep on holding on to hope
26 May, 2012 08:20 AM
If you can't be together this time, maybe at the right time you'll be..
15 Jun, 2012 05:37 PM
I feel so sorry for you I hope you'll meet up with him one day
22 Jun, 2012 07:33 PM
Oh my gosh that's terrible..why did your family do that, everything happends for a reaso,n. you guys met for a reason and you were separated for a reason..love is fragile and we may not always be its best caretakers
30 Jun, 2012 01:10 PM
OMG!!! i'M SO SORRY FOR YOU AND I HOPE THAT YOU TWO WILL BE REUNITED. I COULDN'T HELP BUT CRY :'(
05 Jul, 2012 10:56 AM
When i was reading your story, i kept hoping that there would be a different ending...its very sad, but you are very brave. it sounds like a movie, so i'm hoping with all my heart, that some day, u'll have the happy ending that movies always have... i never knew people can be in love that much, i'm so impressed and really touched. i kept thinking about the guy i like and if we can ever get there. But this doesn't matter now because we are talking about you now, right? anyway, its been a very long time, i wonder whats happened with you, do you even still remember this website or that you wrote this story here? maybe so many things have changed, it doesn't make sense giving you advise. But if you ever read this, i want you to know that your experience taught me alot of things, and you're very brave, considering you were only 16. I guess you're already 18 now.
I'm really sorry about what happened, they say that all things happen for a reason and God works in mysterious ways, i hope you'll find your prince charming again some day, don't give up, its a small world, you can meet again. If i were you, and i had your courage, i would just dump everything and run... i'm really sorry again.
08 Aug, 2012 06:15 AM
<3 i bet you are an amazing girl and yeah you should tell someone about the whip that is not cool at all
10 Aug, 2012 08:17 AM
i guess you are indian no? brothers are so damn cruel ,i really dislike the conservative thinking that they have. when they love others sister it is true love but when their sister loves others brothers its not true...wtf
30 Aug, 2012 10:02 PM
oh my gawd why do ur brothers make the rules for u and ur family usually its my mom and dad and they dont even beat me with a whip that hard they dont even use a whip '-'
30 Oct, 2012 08:15 PM
I'm So Sorry For You Sister
and To "Charlie": You Have No Idea About ISLAM So Don't Talk About Things You Don't Know Plz Instead You Should Read About ISLAM then You May Tlak
03 Nov, 2012 08:38 PM
To be honest i would of ran away just before the plane went and go back to your love.
09 Nov, 2012 05:48 PM
Oh lord. This is bullshit.
I feel so sorry for you. And if I were in your place, I'd call the police for Domestic Violence. After that, you could have gone the way you wanted. I'm sure the guy you loved could take excellent care of you. I know how you're feeling, it's like you can never get over him. I'd say, try to get into contact with him again online, and maybe some day, you have a chance to go back to him and stay with him forever. PS. DITCH THAT STUPID ARRANGED HUSBAND.
02 Dec, 2012 11:32 PM
omg. when i read this i cried. if i was u i would wait till really l8 then when evry1 is asleep run. get a plane and just run. do u remember the site u guys first met on? if u do, log bk on2 that and c if he is still on it. try and get in contact wiv him. i hope wiv all my heart u guys will reunite.
15 Dec, 2012 05:11 AM
I believe that your story is true except the fact that your brothers don't look like your biological ones. How could a brother hurt his sister? Please ditch that STUPID ARRANGED HUSBAND of yours because you have to follow your heart.
11 Jan, 2013 06:11 PM
hey grl u can find him from wer u found echother may b he must waiting for u to come online just try it ur love is true it wil work god bles u guys.....
02 Mar, 2013 09:06 AM
wow my life is d same as urs sista
02 Mar, 2013 10:13 PM
dude your brother should go to jail
I meen he hit you with a whip that son of a bitch
02 Apr, 2013 05:26 PM
u've been very brave and tats realy gud.... Why dont you jst ditch tat guy ur gona marry, tell him u love some1 and that you cnt do it anymore. Try 2 gt in touch with him and go 2 him and talk, catch up, be there for him and lets jst pray tat your family will understan and give you there approval. Really hope both of you get reunited and i hope tat you wil ave a happy ending
17 Apr, 2013 05:40 PM
O my god :( :( :(
19 Apr, 2013 10:33 AM
such a heart touching story it almost made me cry.....
17 May, 2013 03:21 PM
jus run, save up an get outta there.
09 Dec, 2013 02:56 PM
GO TO THE POLICE! GOD BLESS ME THAT IS AGAINST THE LAW! TRUST ME, I KNOW IT HURTS, BUT THAT IS NOT ALLOWED! HE TOUCHED (more like beat half to death!) ANOTHER PERSON THAT WAS NOT (how should I say this...theirs?) AND AS IN TORTURE! GOODNESS ME! Arranged marriage should be freaking cut off! I am so sorry for you, but you and his love will always be together and trust me, your love will last forever, wherever it is. Hon, I have faith in you. Some families have where the older men make the rules. I do not understand your family, hon, but I know you can survive this. Love is not arranged like this. love one day will bring back what you have, whethere you decide it, or you are going to believe in your heart.
09 Dec, 2013 03:00 PM
Also, if anyone in your family is married, was it arranged? Including EVERY single one of your family members. Was it bless their whole life? Did they feel the whole love for each other? Did they want to see each other and kiss their noses every single day? Will their love last, or do they keep it for the sake of (family, money, something else maybe) I am a shy person who is afraid of basically everything, but I know how hard it can be. Stay calm and don't fret. Remember, you did what you thought was right. You were brave, and somehow you found him back. He loved you so much he confronted himself, and I bet he knew the consequences. He loves you very much and you the same. Reborn the love again, even if you can't be together, and trust me, Hon, you'll be with him again, someday. You just get through the dark tunnel. The light awaits you.
12 Dec, 2013 08:49 PM
he beat u that's rong
28 Jun, 2014 08:15 AM
Amazing sad story
28 Jun, 2014 08:20 AM
29 Jun, 2014 01:37 AM
That is soo sad, you should have called the police or something, you shouldn't have put up with that kind of family. I hope you two find each other , this kind of love is rare.
26 Oct, 2014 04:20 AM
Very sad story .well done:)
04 Jan, 2015 03:18 PM
I'm sorry of you.Your brother must be a monster.Otherwise it really touched me.
18 Apr, 2015 06:17 PM
Oh my gosh that is horrible!!! I feel so so so bad for you! And I hope you get together with him!.......by the way I can't stop crying!
05 May, 2015 10:05 AM
u should not leave him. please try to get bond with him again. and write your story.
love is a pain. but a nice pain
08 Jun, 2015 02:47 AM
U knw what dear u should have taken a part time job save sum money and ran away from that prison or u should have told your parents that u prefer to stay single and get a good job than marrying someone else other than ur luv
15 Jun, 2015 02:25 AM
you are a huge annoying S. this story annoys me like hell.
16 Jun, 2015 05:14 AM
okay I understand that you love him and he loves you, but what you did was not right whatsoever first of all if you could of just waited a little while for your love to grow, then it would have been alright but in this case you had to makeout with him didn't you, you did wrong and I am sorry but this is not sad it is just attension seeking from people.
16 Jun, 2015 02:45 PM
Hell!!! Your life are yours not their ....Your brothers can't control yours.... Well be stronger!!! BE a successful person and left that house of yours and pursue what you want !!! and you can make a report for child abusing!!!!!!
19 Oct, 2015 07:05 AM
If I was there, I would have given your brothers a beating. One that they would have never forgotten. It would be the beating that would take away their so-called "power". Then we will see if they still think that they should control you. It's as the old saying goes, "The Tree of liberty from time to time must be watered with the blood of patriots and tyrants." Me and anyone else who would've joined would've been the patriots. Your brothers the tyrants. You have the unalienable right to life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness. Your brothers denied liberty and pursuit of happiness to you. That makes them my enemies. You will find him soon. Your brothers can't and will not keep you two apart.
03 Nov, 2015 01:30 PM
I don't know if anyone would read this or not. Nobody seems to get the concept that calling the cops wasn't an option. I get it. I understand why you wouldn't call the cops. Blah blah blah yea it's family. But telling someone they should've called the cops is easier said than done. I'm currently in a relationship like this, except we haven't been caught. My girlfriend has a family who threatened her just as much as they did. and I get the fact that calling the cops is an option but it's difficult when it's family. It just is. Don't question the fact that it's just not an option. I mean it is easier to have said that the boyfriend should've called the cops. Her family disowns her. She lives with her boyfriend blah blah blah. I'm pretty sure if they could've done that to, but there has to be a reason why they didn't do it. So if you're trying to support someone don't give them the obvious BS. This story was written in 2010. Who knows thry could've gotten back together by now.
08 Nov, 2015 08:43 PM
oh my gosh im so sorry thats awful
21 Nov, 2015 12:41 PM
This is honestly one of the saddest stories I've EVER heard. It must be so hard, I am SO sorry for you. Never forget him. And his face.
07 Jan, 2016 06:21 AM
I think all this beating and more is allowed in India only. I'm also from that country but I'm a birth one of USA. I also loved someone that much that I can't even express in my own words but here its opposite. I have done love with him at the back of my parents , my parents had caught me for 8 times talking with him , they beated me a lot with shoes , sticks , by slapping and also by punching me but then also I didn't ever worry about my parents cuz I was madly in love with him. I used to think no matter of my parents cuz I have someone who loves and cares for me but I was all wrong , definitely wrong. We had a relationship about for 4 years and in 2015 when I was gonna come to USA he broke up with me. He didn't only breakup he hurted me a lot as he loved another girl who lived in Canada that came to India and both of them got married. That day when my parents told me that 'The idiot with whom you wanted to get married is with someone else enjoying a wedding life'. From that I got to know that he didn't love me , he just had the relationship with me to get the papers for having citizenship in USA as I'm a citizen of USA. Now he has married that other girl to be the citizen of Canada as that girl is the citizen of Canada. It's so weird. I'm dying and dying everyday without him. Sometimes I think I should beg infront of him for being back but how will this happen cuz he has got married with someone not in a love relation of teenages. For my parent , I'm dead. My parents take me as I'm not there daughter. Because coming in USA I made a Facebook ID and my brother however got to know about it he told my parents and they beated me a lot and I had to tell them the e-mail and the password both of the ID. When they checked out they saw that I have sent them sad heart broken sms's. They also read some more conversations that I did with his younger brother and more stocker's. My parent's beated me a lot. Again this time my parents declared that I'm dead for them , I'm nothing for them. They only have one son no daughter. This all is my sad love story in which I have lost all of the trust from my parents. I'm dieing and dieing every single day.
08 Jan, 2016 04:24 PM
It is just sad, I cannot explain but my tears says everything. really sorry a out what happened to you and to the one you love. this love was supposed to live :'(
07 Feb, 2016 02:06 PM
Soooooo sad dia. I feel xori for you dia. its very bad for wat your brothers did, denying you the love of your life. Ope de one they decide for you to be loving nd caring. Try to love him though I know its hard to take
21 Feb, 2016 08:57 PM
Love is strong
This is a true story that happens to me. When I was in middle school I had my first love. He was so sweet and kind,well we were friends. Everyday I used to think about him I wanted to tell him so badly about my feeling. In 7th grade we were in the same class but I never told him my feelings. One day he asked me for my phone number so he can text me. I was so happy so I gave him my number. We texted everyday. In 8th grade I felt like he liked me back so I decided to tell him about how much I liked him. So I called him and told him. He just paused for 5 min. Then he finally said "I love u too I never told u I love you with all my heart!" I was soo happy. We spended 6 months dating until...my parent told me that we were moving! I was in tears I can't live on without him...I just can't. I know there are other fishes in the sea but he...he is my true love. The next day I told him about it he begged me to stay, I didn't want to leave him. I needed him with me. Then 2 months later we moved. Life was getting better even tho I missed him I started to feel better. Then 3 months later when I was coming home from school I saw him...it was him! But when I saw him I almost came in tears he...he was hanging out with my best friend they were hugging and kissing! He knew where I lived but he never liked me he liked my friend I wanted to die so bad it was like he stabbed me in the heart.
To be continued...
11 Sep, 2016 08:59 PM
I know u r thinking for him cqrriyng for him but u know what i m not agree with ur decision will he'll be okay if he'll get to know that u r marrying someone else..he will die without dieing i mean he will b dead with his breath on...u r someone else bride u have spoiled 3 life dear...u should have talk to ur brother s friend on this may b he will help instead of marrying u...u should try at that time...but on ur story i cried alot...i m at loss of word now
27 Oct, 2016 08:11 PM
It was kinda crazy story about a mad girl
18 Nov, 2016 08:10 PM
This story is very sad. I cried a little because it made me think of my long distance boyfriend and if my family found out about him... I would get whipped too. I am 15 and so is he, but they still well think he is just a perv trying to get girls....If only they could see what i see....
29 May, 2017 02:18 AM
Ok so, have you ever heard of eloping? Ever heard of following your dreams? Ever heard of domestic abuse? Ever heard of laws? TELL SOMEONE! What your brother did is very illegal in most countries... You don't have to do anything! You can leave, tell someone, ask for protection, beg someone to help you... you can find help, you can have your happy ending, just don't give up. It sounds to me like you two were meant for each other! And if thats the case, then you two can end up together, you just have to try ??
18 Sep, 2017 01:16 PM
that brother was so mean, the girl doesn't deserve the whipping, nor do the boy, what is wrong with the brother? though that was illegal ! stupid bro! anyways, nice but sad story, thank you for such wonderful website, i also recently broke up from my ex but life goes on and on...... so, thanks for ur sharing !
15 Nov, 2017 03:53 AM
it really hurts me.....
03 Dec, 2017 10:56 AM
You're a Muslim, right? Because this happens only in Muslims. Even though, Islam doesn't allow hurting your sister. Almost every Muslim girl is suffering from this. It's because the Muslim families think that it's not allowed in Islam for a girl and a boy to be friends even. Kissing and touching a girl's body is not allowed before marriage in Islam but Islam does allows a girl to have her own choice but the condition is she should be intelligent enough and should have that much intelligence to check if the boy is as serious as he can spent his whole life with her happily or not. Even i am not allowed to make any such moves. I don't like anyone but at least I should be allowed by my parents to have my choice till I'm old enough to be married. I'm studying in a accede my where it is co education, but my class got separated the second day I went to academy. They said that our class will be rejoined with the boys after 2 months. When I told this to my mother, she said, "I'll say them to make your class separate again whenever it rejoins". It's not because our parents don't trust us girls, they do but the problem is most of boys actually mess or pass their time with girls and most of the girls get trapped with such boys and their life gets ruined. But we should be given freedom to at least become friends with boys. Because friendship doesn't mean that a girl is shameless ('cause every girl that is a friend of a boy is given the title of "shameless" in Muslim society). Muslims care for society, for random people, for families (Muslim families are SO wide aaa compared to non Muslims) that what they'll think. They don't ask they're daughters before theyre marriage what they want.
Please help Muslim girls to earn this much freedom.
26 Mar, 2018 01:59 PM
That has to be the worst thing to ever go through. And I thought I didn't like my family
02 Apr, 2018 07:42 PM
I m so sorry fr u... pls dont give up..