Vote +131

Breakup!!

John

11 Nov, 2009 03:15 PM

I am in love with a girl for like two years now. I met her when I was in high school. It was love at first sight. I simply couldn't take my eyes off her. But I hid my feelings for her, since she had a BF and they seemed madly in love. But I kept loving her from a distance and after some time I became one of her good friend. Later I found out that she knew that I was in love with her and always liked me but not just on the same level. But that's later to the story. After being friends with her, we used to hang out some times. Each time I passed with her made me very happy. After few months I found out that she and her boyfriend are fighting constantly. She used to cry a lot for this. I always stayed with her as a good friend and comforted her to my best. And god knows I have never tried to take this as a chance and try to break them apart. One time they had a really big fight over something and after some days they broke up. She got really very upset and cried a lot. After a month when she was finally over him, she proposed me on her own!!! Although it was just a matter of time before I was gonna do it, I just couldn't find the right moment. I immediately shared my feelings for her too. And at last we became a couple. It was all good for almost a year and those were the golden days of my life, but life just doesn't stay on a happy corner. Her old boy friend came back and wanted her in his life back. But she said no. after that she started behaving differently, she doesn't talk too much, doesn't want to return my calls. And one day she came to me and said that she is sorry, she could not carry on what she was doing. It would be wrong for her to be with me, when her heart is thinking of her ex. She said this wouldn't be fair to me. I did not say anything to her, but my whole life broke apart. I don't feel like doing anything now a days. I heard that she and her boyfriend are getting along just fine. And I seem to be floating in the ocean of sadness...

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Rafat says:
14 Nov, 2009 06:11 AM

Dnt worry my fnd ; u should get something better in ur heaven.

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Neerleepto says:
14 Nov, 2009 11:55 AM

It^s a conspiracy! Same case with my life...

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cale says:
15 Nov, 2009 04:23 AM

dude.
that is hectic.
find and read the book called way of the peaceful warrior - by Dan Millman
it will change your life trust me

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rouba says:
20 Dec, 2009 06:38 AM

u should learn of this story the first love is the love that influence our life and it will last for ever.
trust u will find on new love but don't search for it it will come to u

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Mugdho says:
20 Dec, 2009 08:06 AM

simply awesome

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gracy says:
20 Dec, 2009 08:01 PM

Dude...she is really not a worthy person for you...but i knw ur love was true...love the person who loves u rather than thinking about the past...life is once...so keep yourself happy..try changing your daily routine...tat wld help you to come out of the sadness...trust me...

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brittany says:
26 Dec, 2009 12:09 PM

i know wat ur goin through but im still at the corner waitin on the break up i have been for 3 years now i mean i know i love him and i know i always will but i have to sit back and wait b/c i want him to be happy whether it may be with me or with somone else i may not be happy about it but as long as he's happy ill find a way through the dark!! and you will to dont worry!!! just keep your head held high

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arjun says:
03 Jan, 2010 12:36 AM

this is wat happens for guys who love truely.........

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Kate says:
12 Jan, 2010 03:02 PM

youu will find someone better for you!!

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sara bsj says:
10 Feb, 2010 03:34 AM

god hides a precious gift for u just let the past go off and wait

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Joe says:
18 Aug, 2010 03:27 PM

so u were the rebound?... that sucks

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prince says:
05 Sep, 2010 03:13 AM

ur story r jst the same as mine..precisely same..i jst broke up with the girl whom i love firstly yesterday..i thought she would b the last one. But,hmph.. I was wrong..hope we cn carry on wif our life. Im really sad nw.

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John says:
04 Oct, 2010 01:57 PM

guys thank you for all of your support. after all this time i think i am finally over her. and i also think i like a new girl. i just hope she loves me back.. keeping my finger crossed. :D

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K!M says:
20 May, 2011 05:24 AM

i know how does it feel when you see some1 u love with some1 else,but the only thing you can do is to get over it otherwise you'll hurt more than that:(
life getting cruel sometimes.

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sumit says:
04 Aug, 2011 11:05 AM

thtswhy i said to everyone donot fall in love it gives lot of pain n we forget our responsibility towards our parents n about our lyf , we destroyed our futur?

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sumit says:
04 Aug, 2011 11:09 AM

saras bro how can he forget her? , bocz he loves her now..///

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shie says:
05 Aug, 2011 12:09 AM

someday you'll find a girl better than her.

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sherry says:
23 Nov, 2011 01:20 PM

That totally sucked. Not your story, i mean how u were just a rebound. Its always nice to hear a story from a guy's view.

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Lawlgurl says:
28 Nov, 2011 11:14 PM

She fooled you.

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morium akter says:
07 Dec, 2011 07:14 PM

look the think that u wrote that happens in movies and it's is sad and u should tell her all the things in u'r felling..

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cher says:
07 Dec, 2011 08:18 PM

...oh..how sad...shooooot!!!!...

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Esha says:
07 Dec, 2011 10:30 PM

:( so so sad

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Ankit says:
08 Dec, 2011 05:16 AM

Bro i loved one girl but i had no courage in me to tell her.when i collected my courage to tell her i saw her with her bf.my heart broked in pieces.1 mounth of august i didnt want to do anything.i was totally heart broken.i never used talk with anyone.but one day i realised that this way life dosent work.i made my heart of stone with no emotions.i realised that love only gives treachery,pain,agony.so no need to be a heartbroken.try to work keep urself busy i am damn sure u would be fine

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Rayaz says:
09 Dec, 2011 07:41 AM

im sooooooooooooo srry to hear that!!! just dont give up.. be stronge and dont let anything crush you... have an adventure!! it will help. it helped me by meeting new people. it helped me alot by talking to others and having a better life. and now i have way more friends that love me.. i sometimes feel sad but that doesnt hurt me so much like it usto. i always tell my self that there is something better out there.. i promise you will fine the right person!!!

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Drawin Kumar says:
09 Dec, 2011 01:44 PM

Short simle and cool,
Heads up bro.

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Cynthia says:
09 Dec, 2011 07:11 PM

Hey i went through the same thing because im only 13 and alot of boys play me they say im pretty but imnot they just wanna sleep with me so im not that way so you will find some body out there for you Well TRY

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ODYSSEUS says:
10 Dec, 2011 01:40 AM

Omg bro im A Guy and I just cried :'( goodluck

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umesh says:
11 Dec, 2011 09:37 AM

bro dont be sad love always incomplet..becoz its frist words also half.....

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khouloud says:
11 Dec, 2011 12:07 PM

look it hard to say this but u should forget this girl because she"s not faithful me too my sory is very very sad than you so carry on your life without her and becarful to this type of girl good luck

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elena says:
11 Dec, 2011 07:15 PM

i?m pretty sure she?ll regret!but it?s gonna be too late for her maybe...so finger crossed with the new 1. :)

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katey says:
13 Jan, 2012 05:30 PM

see she just wasnt seeing how lucky she was to have a guy waiting on her. when i was like thirteen i had this guy who was in love with me. he did whatever he could to get my attention. then he found out that i had a bf and he seemed to come on to me aa littlw more. in the end he moved to california and i havent heard from him since. it has been 3 years later and i miss him

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ael says:
19 Apr, 2012 11:31 PM

How sad.. but dont worry, there is someone who deserves you. move on and forget.That's is really really sad.

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mitch says:
26 Jun, 2012 06:01 AM

we have the same story...:(, he left me the time her ex gf wanted him back, and he still inlove with her, that i have no other choice but to let him go..he is a user...USER!

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Sarah says:
25 Jul, 2012 09:25 PM

Im sorry,it was so sad,but sometimes a lover should let his/her love to be someone who he/she loves,if u love her,let her to be happy &not suffering.but surely i dont give her the right to break ur heart by doing everything she wants.she should pay attention to ur feeling,as she treated with her ex bf! Anyhow,im sure u find a better one soon. Good luck :)

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Jaliyah says:
24 Nov, 2012 03:35 AM

True love will find you,even if it's not her.Find someone who u think will feel the same way.Or maybe break up with her,and leave her for your ex girlfri-HEY!!!

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vikash singh rathor says:
28 Jan, 2013 05:25 PM

dude i had also face d same cndtion ,3 year ago,,,,
nd now m not able 2 trust any1.....

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lina setiawan says:
08 Feb, 2013 01:30 PM

so sad

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Bianca James says:
21 Feb, 2013 02:42 AM

Your not alone and if she had the same feelings for you then she would've stayed with you instead of choosing her ex, after your were by her side all along... If she had feelings for him still then she would've of not been with you but that's kinda f'd up bro :/

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Ananya Majumder says:
22 Nov, 2013 08:28 PM

A story that touch heart... My life is also a story full of sadness, thats why I can realise the pain.

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zadizta el mae says:
28 Nov, 2013 11:03 AM

it touches me and i've been through with that :( it's very painful i knew

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anon says:
12 Feb, 2014 04:05 PM

It happened to me too

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Faith says:
28 Apr, 2014 08:06 AM

You gotta be strong dude,Let her be..
true love has a habit of coming back..

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guin says:
25 May, 2014 10:23 PM

Thats a really great story im sorry that you guys broke up

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guin says:
25 May, 2014 10:25 PM

I faced a break up too it was an on and off one

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NIVZ says:
01 Jun, 2014 05:53 PM

I am here now man....I feel like doing nothing .....I am lost.....

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noor says:
30 Jul, 2014 06:53 PM

God help you

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chance says:
01 Aug, 2014 02:11 AM

Hey i feel sorry for u and i know how u feel it happened to me to but u will find someone else that truly loves u

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yiruma25 says:
03 Aug, 2014 07:06 AM

don't worry , the perfect girl God wanted you to be with is approaching. God is just waiting for the right time .... :)

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Angel says:
07 Aug, 2014 12:47 PM

I wanna know you,do u have any facebook account?i wanna be your friend.if so,coment bellow to give your ans,and fb id too..

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Koushik says:
09 Aug, 2014 07:49 PM

I m sorry for you. But hope for future. One day you'll find a true love. That's life bro.

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Saba says:
10 Aug, 2014 07:52 PM

I am really sorry for u but someday she will realize her mistake

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Saba says:
10 Aug, 2014 08:11 PM

I am so sorry for u and one day she will realize that she has lost someone very precious :(

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Benjamin says:
28 Aug, 2014 01:41 PM

Your story seemingly coincides with mine. My GF got together with me for the same reason as she broke up with me. I think both of us are evidently viewed as a replacement to fill the void left in her heart. Undeniably, we had the shared times of fun. The pain that ripples in our mind now is so palpable and utterly excruciating. I feel you my friend, and i hope u will move on from here and not dwell in the nostalgia of retrospection

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Jashwanth kumar says:
23 Sep, 2014 12:28 PM

Boss dnt worry... you will definately find some one better than her...but the pain of first love will be for long time...try to over come from it......

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Nikita says:
27 Sep, 2014 09:28 AM

Chill bro u wil more g/f better than her

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Nikita I am an oriya: says:
27 Sep, 2014 09:38 AM

:-DBhai hindi me ek kahabaat hai ki kosis karne walo ki kabhi haar nhi hoti u try nd u wil get the best g/f in the world:-D

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johnin says:
24 Oct, 2014 01:22 AM

let her go brother u do ur works. if she calls u ask her "is am ur playing thing"? or use and throw love

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jashwanth kumar says:
25 Oct, 2014 10:19 AM

this story resembles mine......right now im also floating on the ocean of sadness

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grace hilda says:
05 Nov, 2014 12:42 AM

Be cool dude,one day she will regret for fooling you around.act like nothing happen between you two,as if u guys never met each other or maybe just try to start over with her by being FRIENDS again.....i've been through yr situation like a lot of times in my daily couple life.Relax....

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glensy librando says:
03 Dec, 2014 07:10 AM

hey boy ! you deserve better. not only better but much BETTER. :) always remember that shes not deserve you.

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ashu arora says:
08 Dec, 2014 06:01 PM

Dear frnd
U will find even better smthng dan dis..........

Jus b hpy

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ruhi says:
08 Dec, 2014 06:06 PM

U deserve d best
Plz dnt b depressed

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Yolo says:
09 Dec, 2014 10:45 AM

wtf dude. you shouldnt be depressed. I think its way to soppy and babyish for a guy. Man!! this was in the past. look into the future and meet another girl. marry her and have a baby/family together.

Please keep me posted guys!!!

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Reetu says:
11 Dec, 2014 05:06 PM

if someone drops u , then u must b sure that there will be someone better then ur ex...for ur life

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Kim says:
30 Dec, 2014 05:33 AM

Sorry to hear that, man. Some bitches are not worth it. If she ever come back to you, tell her " fuck off"

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raahul pandit says:
14 Jan, 2015 03:01 PM

don't warry dude first love never forget i know...if u belive in god...god difnetly help u...if u love real...

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Sadlover says:
26 Jan, 2015 11:20 PM

I know how it feels :(

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Emre says:
02 Feb, 2015 03:43 AM

i am going through a very similar situation and i know how it feels when you love someone dearly and then they break your heart but i will never forget her.

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Subham kundu says:
05 Feb, 2015 12:21 PM

Dont be sad yaar sme thing is did wid me...... Yaar girls nature is that..... When she ws feel alone she used u.... For cvrng her aloneesss.....dont b sad yaar I unferstand ur feelings

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viriya says:
14 Feb, 2015 06:28 AM

you should make yourself better and live a happy life. would isn't down tommorow.

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Mano says:
04 Mar, 2015 05:13 PM

S0 saD ov Yew :'(
If We waNt t0 Step 4rwaRd in 0ur lyF,,
FIrsT we shOulD f0rGeT ouR pasT :(

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connie says:
02 Apr, 2015 09:05 PM

That very touching very sad ????

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pawan says:
11 Apr, 2015 08:14 PM

just don't say anything bad about her...your love was pure...u will get someone who will respect it....

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Dave says:
29 Apr, 2015 03:00 PM

Ur love with her was perfect.But maybe she wasn't meant for u

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Alexa Yazbek says:
30 Apr, 2015 05:16 PM

The present is our future past. So make the best of it.

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Kim says:
01 May, 2015 06:27 AM

Gee...I don't know what to say. I know it hurts now but don't take it too hard. I'll be honest..you love for her is really pure and to me honestly you already tried your very best. Honestly I
if I were her, I'll definely continue being with you. Can't believe she's letting someone like you go.

But seriously, I know your probably heard this many times but you shouldn't dwell in the past anymore. There are other girls out there who you'll find one day that'll light up your life way better then her. So really, don't dwell on it. Maybe to you now, it might seem impossible to move on and be happy but sooner or later the feelings you have for her will soon disappear and you'll get your life together again. So stop being depressed and get out there! Do your best, even if your best may seem like the worst. Just keep going, you'll find someone better, trust me.

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Krizza says:
01 May, 2015 11:07 AM

. . O.m.G!
. .thats hurts . .hmmm. ,but you d0nt have choice. .if i were you. .ill wait f0r the Pers0n. . .just for me. .that will never do a thing that can broke my heart. .

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Krizza says:
01 May, 2015 11:11 AM

. .past is past. .d0nt bring it bck. .the m0re u bring it bck. . .the m0re u hurt so much . .

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Kaleem Malik says:
03 May, 2015 06:03 PM

If u love some one u want to wait for her ... Or him.........

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Taylor thomas says:
16 May, 2015 07:31 PM

This killed me inside

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whut says:
08 Jun, 2015 09:37 AM

wooaaaaah!rebound!

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Veronica says:
23 Jun, 2015 03:47 AM

My first love was my best friend. We had been friends for years and one day she just broke my heart. I try not to think about it and move on, but sometimes I just can't help it. Don't worry things will get better for you! Just enjoy what life can offer... Because you never know how or when it might end. Don't let other people effect the way your life goes! Trust me... I know.

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Nancy) says:
02 Jul, 2015 05:18 AM

Oh my God I feel so bad for you:( stay strong))))

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xamse xadaari says:
08 Jul, 2015 03:02 AM

dude.. you don't have to worry about that foolish fake love..am sure.. u will get your suitable partner deserves your entire life sooner or later..

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papori says:
10 Jul, 2015 05:29 AM

sad bt nyc 1

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Bbmlyoenglyn says:
27 Aug, 2015 01:19 PM

pity story..touching

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LOL-LAH says:
09 Sep, 2015 02:38 AM

A friend of mine also have problem same as yours and the only solution he knew for his problem was to attempt suicide...

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Yasin Arfat says:
16 Sep, 2015 06:57 PM

My love story is same!!! I am alone but i wish to she always happy to her life partner..

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kamal says:
27 Sep, 2015 07:44 PM

dude remember god has already made ur soulmate

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Scenekid says:
14 Oct, 2015 02:27 PM

Like this thing happen to many people,an it hurts...it hurts a lot.I am with my gf for two months ,and she tells me she loves me .But the truth is she loves her ex,and cant let him go.When we got togheter they broke up,but they never stopt,just kept going.Maybe she loves me...but she will never love me as she loves him.No matter what i do im stuck,my plane still flies but i dont know till when...

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shigoraxxydele says:
26 Oct, 2015 12:45 PM

so sorry ehn,dah is LIFE for you,owk.

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Nichola Scott says:
04 Nov, 2015 08:59 PM

I know how you feel but life goes on.
I don't that kind of love but I can relate. the guy I like knows how I feel, yet he just stares at me and says nothing. I know im better off without him.

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Avielle. says:
17 Nov, 2015 11:06 PM

You're amazing. Maybe text me sometime. I love what you write and you deserve the best...

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cecil says:
27 Nov, 2015 03:52 AM

ugh. were the same. i don't get it too. :)

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Ema says:
01 Mar, 2016 06:59 PM

I have loved someone for 2 1/2 years of school with each other and i finally told him and he has liked me for a year i found out, but he the kind of guy that doesnt want his guy friends to know he likes me...it is hard to be with my love

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shadon says:
17 Mar, 2016 08:28 AM

Yea it truly hurt and u can't get her out of your mind. It difficult to let go of someone u truly love. The hardest thing to do is to move on after a broken heart.

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shenna rauza says:
18 Mar, 2016 10:04 AM

Thats y everyone says NO LOVE NO TENSION????

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Amanda says:
16 May, 2016 08:43 PM

I think this story was cheep I've read way better stories

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Amanda says:
16 May, 2016 08:44 PM

But I do feel bad like at least you know she was thinking about her ex when you guys had sex????????wow I'm so sorry

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Jillian Bone says:
22 May, 2016 12:26 AM

she didnt deserve you in the first place and i hope that you get off of that ocean of sadness and get on the one where you are as happy as can but

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Bia says:
01 Jun, 2016 01:18 PM

I think she never liked you

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Bia says:
01 Jun, 2016 01:22 PM

I think She never liked u. But so sad to hear this.

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Morgan says:
06 Jun, 2016 04:02 AM

U seem like an amazing guy. In fact, you are too good for her. In a way, she did the right thing, Otherwise, she would have been secretly dating or having affairs with him without u knowing and she wouldn't even have a heart for you. U will find someone worthy to have a great guy like you in their life????

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kenPH says:
24 Jun, 2016 06:50 AM

Oh,, that's bad but we are made to be flexible sometimes, try to look around and may find a new start that loves you back deeply.

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Paynemi says:
12 Aug, 2016 03:35 AM

Hi bro. I m exactly with u bt i m now happy bcog there is a plan 4 u n me

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pink_angel says:
08 Oct, 2016 07:58 AM

You are a great guy and you will soon find someone who deserves your love. I hope u will find it soon.

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Angel says:
10 Oct, 2016 04:54 PM

I'm sorry I know how it is to be a rebound she hurt you and that suck be strong you fine love you just haft to look????

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Alexis Vang says:
14 Oct, 2016 12:23 AM

That is so sad I feel so sorry for you and if you were my friend I would always be there for you too. Sorry that this happen and if it were to happen to me I bet that I would feel the same way.

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Lynn says:
16 Oct, 2016 10:08 PM

It's okay some people go for the best to come

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shanaya khanna says:
30 Nov, 2016 06:39 PM

i really fell bad for you but life is all about up's and down. i must say that she is very lucky that u love her so much. but u should move on in your life

your well wisher

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Captain says:
12 Dec, 2016 05:17 AM

don't worry
Everything will get well soon????????

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fatima says:
28 Dec, 2016 04:42 AM

Hey dude .. she's just probably not "the one" for you .. maybe God just did so because he just wants you to learn she's not meant for you .. I mean we all go through that .. pain isn't constant .. I mean hey I'm young (20) haha but life goes on you can find someone better than her

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