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Left in the middle of no where

Kalah Hah

16 Sep, 2016 10:40 PM

It was august 2014 and it was my birthday when i met this guy, he was introduced by a friend whom to be his cousin. He told me that at the age of 20 he is already a father. He got this cute little girl with his ex gf. September 2014 he started courting me, we started dating. He will sleep over my house every night.

Six months later, something happened to my businesses and i needed to move to the other city. He will still visit me two to three times a week and sleep over once a week. March 2015, i got pregnant and things seem to be normal between me and my bf. I never got chance to go back to his city or visit his family since i got pregnant.

September 2015 my boyfriend died cause of a motorbike accident. What hurts me the most is that his family never allow me to visit him at the hospital while his still in coma. When he died i beg his family to allow me to see him in the funeral but his family also blocked me from seing him even to the last day.

I dunno what i have done? Why they did that to me? The only thing i did is to love their son and give ad much as i can. I was pregnant of their sons child but i never get comfort from them and infact they told me. Go! Live peacefuly, leave your own life, you did want to get pregnant so raise it your own, you cannot get anything from us!. Thats what they said...I was wreck, i was devastated, i was numb but i have to think of my child, there is another life in my womb that needed much more love and care.

Today i am living happy and peaceful with my pretty little princess. She just turned 9months old last september 14th. One day she will ask wheres her father and what happened to her father.

By the way we were living peaceful untill this people (family of my late bf) who ignored me and push me away before surprisingly message me and says they want to see my child. I cant realy decide yet if i will let them see my baby. They have been messaging me but i did not answer yet.

Thank you for reading, and thank you if you will write an advice. I apologise if there are a lot of error, wrong grammar, etc. Please understand i am not an english speaker. Thank you very much :).

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ken says:
05 Oct, 2016 10:20 PM

sad story. well d girl is theirs they can c her but they can't take her from u

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Alinka says:
09 Oct, 2016 09:53 PM

No she is your and only yours they where acting like that so ya

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Angel says:
10 Oct, 2016 05:17 PM

I'm sorry and love your daughter be a good mom and when she ask tell her her Dady was the man you loved and that he loved her and that he had to go but her watching over her and loves her

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ishita says:
23 Oct, 2016 08:38 AM

no,dnt let dem see ur child..u raised hr urslef, alone,they ddnt help or contact u neither tried to know if u both are alive or not..they may take your child away from you..don't let them see her..don't forget that they didn't allow you see your love last time

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ishita says:
23 Oct, 2016 08:45 AM

no ..don't let them reach your daughter..she's yours.. you raised her yourself, can do it ..they'll take her away from you.. never forget that they didn't let you see your love last your daughter more than any thing else.tell her that her dad loves him so much and is watching her and is always with you both, he died in accident but still is with you both

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ishita says:
23 Oct, 2016 08:48 AM

where were they at the time when you were alone ,you needed someone to support you when you lost your love and were pregnant ..never ever trust them

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emmanuel mulaudzi says:
25 Oct, 2016 09:19 PM

I like it an is vry painfl to me but accept thm to c the child forget about the past GOD wll c u thro.... Nelson mandela fort for freedom without killing but by accepting all tht what happen has happend an life go...... On

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Hikkidashi says:
24 Nov, 2016 01:37 AM

NO! Don't Be Selfish! If You Don't Let Your Husbands' Family See Your Daughter. Then You Are Putting Restrictions On Your Child. She Will Have Less People To Rely For Help. You Need To Think About Your Child's Feelings, Not Yours. Do You Think Your Husband Wants You And His Family To Be Hating Each Other?

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Josh says:
24 Nov, 2016 01:45 AM

Love Is Very Essential. Love Is What Every Human Person Needs To Live. The More Love The Person Gets, The More She Realize On How Important She Is. The Child Should Not Be Given Restrictions And Should Be Free! If You Want To Put Those Restrictions On Your Child. That Child Will Break Free, But Will Not Realize That She Needs Someone Who She Can Truly Trust To Let Her Explore The Greatness Of People's Love. You Need To Notice How You Needed The Support Of You Husband's Family, And Now You Need To Notice That Your Daughter Needs Support Of Your Husband's Family Now.

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