He Left Me ....
Caitlin
15 Jun, 2013 10:15 AM
I met this guy over the internet in 2011 and we started talking for about a week and then we just stopped. I didn’t really think much of it until we talked again in July last year. We kept talking and in August he admitted he loved me and I said it back because I didn’t know what to say. There was this one day in August when I found out he was doing things with another girl (let’s call her Sarah*, I’m not actually going to use her real name) behind my back. I told him that I knew and he kept apologizing and saying he loved me and everything and I believed him. He then asked me to become his girlfriend, and I said yes.
The thing was we have never met each other. We skyped all the time, but because we lived 3 hours away he decided to come and visit me and that was when we met. I then realized I did actually like him. We became so close and I eventually fell in love with him. In late September, he admitted he was also in love with Sarah* I was so gutted. We kept dating for a week until he called it off.
I felt my heart getting crushed. I was happy with my life until he told me that. We still talked until late December, but at the same time he was talking to Sarah. I got so jealous, but I had to hide my feelings. He then told me we couldn’t talk anymore. I deleted his number, his Facebook, everything. I was so in love with him and I just couldn’t face reality. Anyways, about two weeks later he and Sarah were dating. Seeing the guy you love with another girl is heart wrenching. I gave up and tried to forget about him, but deep down inside, I still loved him.
In April, we started talking again. He said he was sorry and that it was a mistake and he loved me still. I believed him and you know what? In May he told me the same thing; we can’t talk anymore and went back to Sarah*. I still love him, but a part of me knows that we will never be together again. I get told a lot that there are plenty more guys out there that will actually treat me right, I just have to be patient and he will come along soon enough.
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Comments
Post a Comment12 Nov, 2013 02:01 PM
Awrh, Don't Forget Hun, That There Are Plenty Of Boys Out There Who Will Treat You Right And Love You For Who You Are, He Sounds Like A Player, And I Know Its Hard Because I've Been There Before But You Have To Forget About Him, Reading This Made Me Think As I Am Currently Dating Someone of The Internet But We Have Met And There Are No Problems, Just Don't Let Boys Treat You Like That. You're Best Of Dating Someone You Know Well, Your Probably A Pretty Girl And He Is Taking You For Granted, Boys Like That Don't Deserve Girls, He Is The Type That Will Trick You Into Loving Him And Make You Feel Loved So He Can Get His Own Way My Ex Boyfriend Was Like That, He's Gone Now, Took A While To Forget About Him But I Eventually Did... Just Wait For The Right One To Come Along, It Will Happen:)xxx
13 Nov, 2013 09:48 AM
Aw, thank you.
I still love him. I've honestly haven't felt this way about anyone. What does it mean?
Did it take you long to get over him?
17 Nov, 2013 07:06 PM
u dont deserve him caitlin , u deserve better person than him.... so be happy n show him that u r still happy without him in ur life
18 Nov, 2013 11:46 AM
Here's what i think sweety. First i gotta ask you a question. Why the internet? You gotta be living on a deserted island to start searching for a boyfriend on the "internet". We often fantasize or dream about what our ideal person would be and when we do find them we went head over heels. You'll try to do anything to get them. I am not saying that that's your situation but its just something for you think about. Obviously, he is what the young kids today would call "Player", which is not good. Not good for you, not good for Sarah, not good for anybody. He knows you, you would do anything for him because "love" you love him. To him, you are just a puppet. I am going to tell you to move on. Eventually someone will come along. Don't feel bad about this one because it didn't work out, it's a lesson learned. Baby girl, i wish you the best. I hope you'll find somebody who will love you for you and treat you right like you should be treated because you are special and beautiful.
28 Nov, 2013 11:46 AM
First of all, i give kudos to everybody that has given their comments here. You really need to move on cos he doesnt deserve u. He doesnt really love u thats why he is off and on. U deserve so much more than that. Dont let him kill your self esteem. There is a better guy out there waiting to love u and treat u lik a queen. Come on girl, you are beautiful and special.
05 Dec, 2013 10:32 AM
Catlin,u realy r a very honest persn,yu belvd him evry moment bt only he played wit yu as a chld play wit toys,u stop ruminating for him,u'll get bettr persn,a perfect boy for the perfcet gal..jst pray 4 ua pair 2 GOD...Indeed he wil send a gud guy 4 yu...
06 Dec, 2013 09:31 AM
Aw thank you so so so much for your heart warming comments.
This really did cheer me up. :)
10 Dec, 2013 07:40 AM
girl ! your heart is not a toy ... dont let him play it ... girls deserve to be loved not to be hurt ! however its not yet true love its just an infatuation :) because theres a man that is really for you <3 wait for the right time to come :)
10 Dec, 2013 12:15 PM
good thing is that the people who told you is correct. Wait for the time, but sometimes bring yourself out there, take the chances, but maybe stay in the dark until you finally, yes finally, get out to the light and see new love for the right one. It might take a while, but then it will take time. xo
03 Jan, 2014 12:02 AM
I Know Exactly What You're Going Through , I'm Going Through The Same Situation With My Ex And I Just Can't Get Over Him .
19 Apr, 2014 04:12 PM
Don't worry much about that person..
Maybe he is not in your life but the comming
days Will change into your happiness.
Don't blindly love unless you know anything
about that person . That Will hurt you only .
14 Jun, 2014 08:58 PM
cmmon babes u r d best...somethng bettr is waitin fo u ahead ...go ahead njoy yo lyf to d fullest
17 Jun, 2014 10:51 AM
Dear Caitlin, I was there.. For 11years, we married, got children.. But was playing with my mind.. Finaly i moved out.. I tried and forgot him.. This took me 2 years to delete him in my heart! Am happy very happy with someone else.. I encourage you to move on. There are handsome boys waiting for you..
07 Jan, 2015 07:39 PM
hy Catlin I knw how its feels...I've been in DAT situation too...but you knw what....its time to move on....everything happen becus thr is a reason behind it...so just be patience n wait for the right guy..thre will b someone who will treat you right ok....but you really need to be patience :)
04 Jul, 2015 06:20 AM
Hi Caitlin ;
We have the same experience in online dating.There's a lot of man in the world. I know he's not the only one. I've learned in break up that this is not the end but its a new beginning. One day you will meet the love ofyour life in good timing. Just wait ...
Remember tHat old cliche
True love waits ;)
Carmina :)
13 Apr, 2016 09:02 PM
I am happy u moved on
03 Jun, 2016 05:33 AM
Look i was going thorough the same thing and i still think about hi to this day but keep positive thoughts and dont try just let them come to u because you are better than that